Thought For Today: Love Them In-spite

As hard as it might be, This Is The Truth!!!

Quick pic I wanted to share with you guys because it's the absolute truth.

Do you have unrealistic expectations for people in your life? or maybe you find yourself constantly disappointed by the way they treat you? even if those aren't the case, maybe your attempting to get something or expect something from someone whose incapable to give/do it?. 

It any of these situations Ladies and Gentlemen, allow me to share with your something from experience. STOP loving people thinking they'll be what YOU want them to be and START loving them for who they are.

This is does give them a free pass to hurt you, deliberately. Trust and believe if someone, anybody is hurting you constantly- you need to move on. But, if your expecting someone to behave a certain way, act a certain way, or say something in a way in which you want them to say it- your setting yourself up for constant disappointment. 

Learn that, We Are All Human. and while you should want something from someone and expect certain things- not everyone is able to do so. It's your ownership to say, "OK, I get it! You can't do this or aren't going to say this so I'm going to stop stressing, stop getting my feelings hurt in expectation and LOVE YOU INSPITE". Only GOD (or whichever higher power you believe in) can truly CHANGE a person, and 9 times out of 10 it may not be the change your asking for.

I learned this many times the hard way....so I just wanted to share that tid-bit.

Have a Great Morning.