Love is a DRUG....

Love Addiction

“…most relationships between lovers are just like a relationship between a drug addict and the one who provides the drugs. The one who has the biggest need is like the addict; the one who has a little need is like the provider. The one who has the little need is the one who controls the whole relationship. You can see this dynamic so clearly because usually in every relationship there is one who loves the most and the other who doesn’t love, who only takes advantage of the one who gives his or her heart. You can see the way they manipulate each other, their actions and reactions, and they are just like the provider and the drug addict.
“The drug addict, the one who has the biggest need, lives in constant fear that perhaps he will not be able to get the next dosage of love, or the drug. The drug addict thinks, ‘What am I going to do if she leaves me?’ That fear makes the drug addict very possessive. ‘That’s mine!’ The addict becomes jealous and demanding, because of the fear of not having the next dosage. The provider can control and manipulate the one who needs the drug by giving more doses, fewer doses, or no doses at all. The one who has the biggest need completely surrenders and will do whatever he can to avoid being abandoned.” — DMR